Showing posts with label planning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label planning. Show all posts

10.04.2011

A driving lesson

Stream

I am a great planner.
I think ahead and make sure things are where they need to be.
I also tend to worry so a bit of over planning can happen.

Extra diapers, snacks, games...
things we must have, might need and a few things just in case.

So when I left home to pickup my mom we were in good shape.
I had plan to get to our destination with Eva napping the majority of the drive.
More sleeping in car and one long stop.
It sounded perfect.

Then I hit some fog and stopped traffic.
An extra hour of stopped traffic.
So I made a new plan and kept on driving.

Fast forward to a three hours later 
we are only 20 minutes into our drive 
and on our second stop of the morning.  

Eva was sleeping and my mom was chatting...
I was all up in my head - thinking up a new plan.
Focussed on our destination... the next stop.

Then we hit traffic.
Again.
Stopped traffic.

As I sat there thinking, plotting and planning our timeline...
I realized that I had no idea what my mom was talking about.

I missed a whole conversation.
All because I busy planning.
Then, for once, I actually let it all go.

I stopped worrying and stopped watching the clock.
I listened and talked.
Soaked up the moments and enjoyed the ride.

Forgetting all about the destination...

We stopped over 7 times at least.
I lost count.

We played at the gas station.
Looked at big trucks and waved.
I stopped once just because it was pretty.

I realized on the drive home...
that I needed this lesson.
I had needed it badly.

Enjoying the process,
the moments in between.

Forgetting about the destination...
and just enjoying the drive taking us there.

Do you focus too much on the destination?





1.17.2011

Dinner Plans?

So, I mentioned that have started planning our meals.  I had some people ask some questions.  Even though I feel like the blind leading the blind, I thought I would share some of what I have learned so far.  This is pretty long,  fair warning.

Disclaimer: I am not a meal planning expert and I have a lot to learn.  


When I first started doing this in October, I made a few mistakes and consequently, learned a lot.  The first week was a mess.  Here is where I have gone wrong and what it has taught me. 

Your agenda for the next week.
I did not consider our schedules at all.  I just dove right in and planned our menu for all 7 days of the week.  There were nights my husband would be working and days that we would be visiting family instead of being at home.  Here I was with  a ton of groceries and we were going to only be eating at home 4 days.  I had to do some rearranging and some veggies ended up going bad.  Arrghh I hate wasting food (and money).

Make it flexible.
When I realized that my plan needed adjusting in a major way, I had to find flexible areas in the menu. Meals from the pantry, freezer or with ingredients that have a long shelf life were my saving grace.  I could move them to the next week with no problem.  Now when I plan our menu I make sure there are flex meals that can be pushed to the next week.

Check your fridge. (and Clean it)
Imagine my surprise when I came home form the grocery the first time.   There was no room in our fridge! Why?  Well, I already had groceries in the fridge from the week before.  None of which I looked at when planning my menu.  I even bought things I already had... there was a bell pepper behind the milk, getting wrinkly.  Now I clean my fridge, then plan the menu using what we have on hand first.   Bonus, when you get home with those bags of groceries it is a cinch to mut them away in a clean fridge.

Make complicated dishes on the weekend
Or when you have a helping hand.  Picture it: a kitchen covered with chopped this and that, 3 pans going on the stove, a hot oven, a cook and a baby monster.  A monster who has a hard time entertaining herself at 6 o'clock.  It is a combination for burned food and a headache.  Now I save complicated or labor intensive for when Michael is home or my parents are visiting to help.  

Use your freezer
I use my freezer like another pantry.  I make double batches of freezer friendly foods and put 1/2 of it away for later.  Time intensive dishes are my favorite to put in the freezer.  Make it once and eat it twice.  Lasagna, sauces,  taco meat, pizza dough, cooked rice are all great.  When I buy meat it is often in bigger packages than we would use for one meal.  I break it apart into meal size portions and freeze.  I also put marinade and seasoning in the freezer bag so that all I have to do is move out the fridge to thaw.  Once it is thawed it is already seasoned to cook.  

Keep lists
I started a list of foods we like.  Divided the list into main dishes, veggies, and starches.  Then I  went through the list and marked the ones that could be frozen.  I also keep a list on the computer of what is in our freezer.  We have a small freezer and it is packed pretty full.  The last thing I want to do is dig in there all the time looking to see what we have.  Something hard and frozen always ends up flying out and taking out a few toes.

Plan for the unplanned
The baby is sick, your out all day on errands,  a family member is in the hospital...  Anyway, you get home and it is dinnertime (or long past it).  What to do?  Put one or two pantry/freezer meals on the menu.  Something really quick and easy.   I make sure to schedule them for the end of the week. That way if a bad day happens I can move that easy meal up and not worry about it.  Just because I plan on stir fry on Wednesday, it could become grilled cheese and soup in a pinch.

New recipes
I usually only try one new recipe a week.  New recipes take longer to make because I am having to read instructions. They sometimes mean using ingredient that I don't normally use, so that means a bigger shopping list and grocery bill.  If a new recipe becomes a keeper - it goes on our keeper list.

I also was asked for some recipes.  Here are some links to recipes I have posted before.
(FF = freezer friendly)


I just tried PW's Thai Honey Peanut Chicken and these Lettuce Wraps. They are both yummy! Bonus: the meat portions of both of these are great for the freezer.  Just thaw and add rice or a head of lettuce.  Dinner done!

My weekly menu can be found here or at the top of my blog under "make plans."  If I am using a recipe I will try to link to it.  I have noted if I have found it good for doubling and freezing.

and here is a promise to post more - if you like this.

1.15.2011

Aim: make plans

Making plans...

I was so good at this at work.  
I planned, adapted, decided, and executed.
I did this for me and my 6 fulltime and 48 part time employees...
who were spread out across 8 states and 2 time zones.

It was almost seamless...
and when something went wrong, it was fixed rapid fire.
My boss loved me because I could get things done.
I was organized.

Why I am now disorganized mess?
There is just 3 of us.
One address.
One time zone.

Well, I had no plan an I had no clue where to start.
So I started small.

I planned our meals.
For all of October and November.

Wow.
What a difference.
I knew what to buy at the grocery.
We wasted no food because what I bought was used.
Things were defrosted and ingredients were all on hand.

The holidays creeped in the way and I slacked off.
But, I am back on track.
I even added a blog page to keep me in line.

As long as I make my lists while someone is napping.